The structure of your life is in your hands. Making sure your roots are healthy, deep enough and in a fertile place. Growing a strong trunk that can support what you want to do and who you want to be. Reaching your branches out into the right areas and directions. Putting out foliage that shows who you are. Producing flowers to attract who you need in your life. Growing fruit that is the satisfying product of your life for your self and those you wish to nourish.
What would you like to have happen? What keeps happening? What do you want to stop or avoid? and What do you want to have happen?
Being clear about the structure you wish to create is the first step to a satisfying, fun, happy and joyful life.